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title: "Hidden and Masked Feelings"
description: "Recognise that people may show something different from what they feel, consider why they might hide a feeling, and learn that outward clues do not prove another person's feelings"
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# Hidden and Masked Feelings

Recognise that people may show something different from what they feel, consider why they might hide a feeling, and learn that outward clues do not prove another person's feelings

Subject: Personal & Social Development · Area: Emotional Literacy · Ages 7 to 9
Page: https://lightmysky.com/learn/personal-and-social-development/hidden-and-masked-feelings-mt_E5ju6kQSu3

## Ready when they can

- Give an example of someone hiding a feeling and a possible reason
- Notice differences between words and body-language clues without claiming certainty about someone's feelings
- Describe a gentle check-in that respects privacy and identify a trusted adult to tell if someone is hurt or unsafe

## Lesson: When Feelings Hide Behind a Smile

Sometimes people show something different from what they feel. Smiling while feeling sad can be called hiding or masking a feeling. A smile alone does not prove happiness.

Someone might hide a feeling because they feel embarrassed, want privacy or do not want others to worry. Hiding does not prove the feeling has gone away. Feelings can still change.

**Example.** Zara falls off her bike. She smiles and says, 'I'm okay,' but her hands shake. Her friend asks whether she is hurt and offers to get a grown-up. The friend does not guess her feeling.

*(drawing: Check whether Zara is hurt. Her smile and shaking hands do not tell us her feeling for sure.)*

Words, faces and voices can give clues, but a clue is not proof. Looking away can have many reasons. Quietness does not always mean sadness. Someone who laughs now and is quiet later may have changing feelings. That difference alone does not prove they are hiding a feeling.

*(drawing: You might ask, 'Would you like to talk?')*

Offer once and listen. If someone does not want to talk, respect that choice. They can speak to a trusted grown-up when ready. You can share your feelings with someone you trust too. Sharing can help you get support, but it does not promise the feeling will stop. If someone is hurt or unsafe, tell a trusted grown-up, such as a teacher you trust.

**Recap.** Outward clues do not prove a feeling. Ask gently, respect privacy, and tell a trusted grown-up if someone is hurt or unsafe.

*This lesson, quiz and flashcards were written for this dataset about hidden feelings, respecting privacy and seeking trusted adult help when someone is hurt or unsafe.*

## Practice

8 questions on this page, each with its working shown.

## Needs first

- [Expressing Feelings with Words](https://lightmysky.com/learn/personal-and-social-development/expressing-feelings-with-words-mt_kvrvpQris4)
- [Naming basic emotions](https://lightmysky.com/learn/personal-and-social-development/naming-basic-emotions-mt_LhkP_KKIRS)

## Optional connections

- [Mild to Strong Emotions](https://lightmysky.com/learn/personal-and-social-development/mild-to-strong-emotions-mt_rymBfJmvFl)

## Opens up

- [Culture and Experience Shape Emotions](https://lightmysky.com/learn/personal-and-social-development/culture-and-experience-shape-emotions-mt_nIl1kKZHsk)