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# Feeling of not understanding

Notice the feeling of not understanding — recognise when something is confusing rather than reading or listening past it

Subject: Learning to Learn · Area: Learning to Learn · Ages 6 to 7
Page: https://lightmysky.com/learn/learning-to-learn/feeling-of-not-understanding-mt_klyw-tdlhP

## Ready when they can

- comprehension monitoring research
- Flavell metacognitive monitoring

## Lesson: Noticing the confused feeling

Sometimes when you are reading or listening, a part does not make sense. That mixed-up feeling has a name: not understanding. Good learners notice this feeling right away, instead of reading or listening past it.

*(drawing: The mixed-up feeling is a signal. It pops up right between 'this makes no sense' and 'time to stop and think'.)*

**Example.** Zara is listening to directions for a game. Halfway through, she thinks, 'Wait, I don't get how the second part works.' She notices the confused feeling and stops to think about it, instead of just nodding along.

**Tip.** One clue that you don't understand: you cannot say the idea back in your own words. If you cannot picture it or explain it simply, that is your signal to pay closer attention.

**Example.** Theo is reading a story. One sentence feels like a jumble of words. Instead of skipping past it and hoping it will make sense later, he notices, 'That sentence confused me,' and rereads it.

**Recap.** The confused feeling is not bad, it is useful. Noticing it is the first step to understanding.

## Practice

8 questions on this page, each with its working shown.

## Needs first

- [Naming Your Feelings](https://lightmysky.com/learn/personal-and-social-development/naming-your-feelings-mt_69hFD2NgGe)

## Opens up

- [Trying a new approach](https://lightmysky.com/learn/learning-to-learn/trying-a-new-approach-mt_95zxYqpP7m)
- [Monitoring Comprehension](https://lightmysky.com/learn/english/monitoring-comprehension-mt_GugVunb2lI)
- [Observation vs Interpretation](https://lightmysky.com/learn/science/observation-vs-interpretation-mt_Hw70LI5xza)
- [Asking for Help with Learning](https://lightmysky.com/learn/learning-to-learn/asking-for-help-with-learning-mt_mvXufozy2s)
- [Exploring Ideas Through Talk](https://lightmysky.com/learn/english/exploring-ideas-through-talk-mt_n6GhzDPllD)
- [Guided Multi-Step Problem Solving](https://lightmysky.com/learn/mathematics/guided-multi-step-problem-solving-mt_O_UOTiMvT_)
- [Responding to Writing Feedback](https://lightmysky.com/learn/english/responding-to-writing-feedback-mt_OyOYHlZ2_T)
- [Self-Correcting While Reading](https://lightmysky.com/learn/english/self-correcting-while-reading-mt_rQ2YJJi4uh)
- [Reading for Meaning](https://lightmysky.com/learn/english/reading-for-meaning-mt_scBgiMKhG_)
- [Asking scientific questions](https://lightmysky.com/learn/science/asking-scientific-questions-mt_XirhnAB6Ye)