Loyalty and honesty pull opposite ways. What is the useful move?

• Drop both values at once
• Say which one wins for you, with a reason
• Wait until the conflict solves itself

What should each value on your list carry?

• A real example from your past year
• A quote from a famous stranger
• A prettier synonym

The ranking of your values matters more than the list itself.

Circle one:   True   False

Why keep the values list near five?

• Five is every teacher's lucky number
• Short lists impress strangers faster
• Long lists tie every conflict and teach nothing

Your ranking puts health first, yet you gamed all weekend and skipped sleep. What should you ask?

• Which game to play next
• What that choice says about the ranking
• Who else skipped sleep too

Mara lists kindness but cannot find one example from her year. What does that mean?

• Her year was simply too short
• The value is still a slogan for her
• Examples ruin good values

Jon's ranking survived three conflicts but broke on the fourth. What now?

• Throw the whole ranking away
• Ask what the fourth case reveals and adjust
• Pretend the fourth conflict never happened

Two friends rank loyalty over honesty and honesty over loyalty. Who is wrong?

• The loyalty-first friend, always
• The honesty-first friend, always
• Neither, if each can defend the ranking with reasons