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Words for Big Feelings

Know and use words for big feelings and calming down such as frustrated, anxious, overwhelmed, disappointed, calm, cope, settle, patience and breathe, and know that naming a feeling is the first step to calming down.

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What a learner can do afterwards

  • Use words like 'frustrated', 'anxious', 'overwhelmed', and 'disappointed' accurately to describe how they feel in difficult moments
  • Explain what 'calm down' strategies are in their own words and name at least two they have tried (e.g. deep breaths, counting, walking away)
  • Distinguish between similar feelings, e.g. explain the difference between being angry and being disappointed

1 · Read

Everyone feels big feelings sometimes. Mad, sad, or scared are normal. Having a word for the feeling helps you handle it. Words like calm, breathe, and patience can help you settle down.

Feel bigName itTake breathFeel calmer
Say the feeling, then breathe. That helps you feel calmer.
Try it together

Mia's hands shook and her face felt hot. She said, 'I feel overwhelmed.' Naming it helped her pick a strategy: three slow breaths.

Good to know

Angry and disappointed can feel alike. Angry feels hot and loud inside. Disappointed feels more quiet and heavy. Naming the exact feeling helps you pick the right strategy.

Words for feelings are the first tool for calming down.

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Print a worksheetA4 with an answer key page for grown-ups. No screen, no internet.

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Then practise

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Words for Big Feelings · Personal & Social Development, ages 5 to 8 · LightMySky