Words for Big Feelings
Know and use words for big feelings and calming down such as frustrated, anxious, overwhelmed, disappointed, calm, cope, settle, patience and breathe, and know that naming a feeling is the first step to calming down.
What a learner can do afterwards
- Use words like 'frustrated', 'anxious', 'overwhelmed', and 'disappointed' accurately to describe how they feel in difficult moments
- Explain what 'calm down' strategies are in their own words and name at least two they have tried (e.g. deep breaths, counting, walking away)
- Distinguish between similar feelings — e.g. explain the difference between being angry and being disappointed
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Everyone feels big feelings sometimes. Mad, sad, or scared are normal. Having a word for the feeling helps you handle it. Words like calm, breathe, and patience can help you settle down.
Mia's hands shook and her face felt hot. She said, 'I feel overwhelmed.' Naming it helped her pick a strategy: three slow breaths.
Angry and disappointed can feel alike. Angry feels hot and loud inside. Disappointed feels more quiet and heavy. Naming the exact feeling helps you pick the right strategy.
Words for feelings are the first tool for calming down.
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