Peer Pressure and Resisting It
Understand peer pressure — the influence friends and peers can have on your choices and behaviour — and develop strategies for resisting pressure to do something they know is wrong or that makes them uncomfortable
What a learner can do afterwards
- Define peer pressure in their own words and give a real-world example
- Describe at least two strategies for resisting peer pressure, such as walking away or using humour
- Explain why going along with something wrong to fit in usually makes things worse
The lesson
Peer pressure is when friends or people your age try to get you to do something, just because they are doing it or expecting you to. It can be loud, like teasing you until you give in, or it can be quiet, like feeling you have to join in because everyone else already did.
Jordan's friends dare him to sneak a candy bar out of the store without paying. 'Everyone does it,' they say. Jordan's stomach feels tight and his hands go cold. That uneasy feeling is worth listening to: it usually means something is wrong.
You do not need a big fight to push back. Try walking away, cracking a joke to break the tension, or giving a firm 'No thanks, that's not for me.' Blaming a strict rule works too, like 'My mom would ground me for a month.' Any exit that gets you out counts.
Going along with something wrong to fit in rarely ends well. You might hurt someone, get in real trouble, or lose people's trust. And saying yes once often makes the pressure come back, because friends learn you'll cave.
Real friends do not need you to do something wrong to prove you belong.
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Where this leads
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